Bad cops

These two rugrats were giving me headache few times during the day. Just typical day lah tu kan. Aqil is at the phase of learning to play and communicate. Sometimes he gets rough and started to hit the sister. The sister pulak on the other hand cepat jd cry baby lah. Sakit kene ketuk or kne baling barang.

When all the being good cops and talking nicely didnt work, and patience level meter is off limits, taring pun keluarlah. Aqil pun pandai. If he knows that he is wrong, die cpt2 tutup muka and sit at the corner - konon hiding. But if he is in a good mood, he will hug Rauhah to show he is sorry.

Smlm buat hal lg and it was when I was busy cooking. It was few times until I decided to put Aqil in the room and close the door. Kecik2 kne timeout dh but the problem is Rauhah is so kesian to her little brother. Baru je tutup pintu, Rauhah dh bukak balik die ckp 'Nanti Aqil berdarah nanti. Tak boleh tutup die' (he once throwing tantrum and tersengguk kat lantai so bibir die pecah sikit. Rauhah reminds me of that. It was one time but she remembers everything about blood)

Lahh pulak dh but afterwards they were both baik...skejap..tak sampai 1minit. Then Aqil buat balik. Then I repeat again but this time I told her, kalau Aqil x kene timeout nnt Aqil buat Rauhah sakit lagi. 'ke Rauhah yg nk kne timeout now? Choose. Either one of you kne duduk dlm bilik'

She went silence and her face showing 'nk ckp Aqil tp kesian and nk sacrifice herself pun tak sanggup' haha. At the end die kata 2 2 tak boleh. I gave my (hopefully) last word and told her to be tolerate and if Aqil start hitting again she has to run away and told me nicely. Aqil pun kne skolah jugak. Dh mcm mana mak2 tak membebel?

Lepas pada tu, trus xde dh gaduh2. Both boleh sit together and play nicely. These were the times such war will end well. Rauhah dh faham so mmg boleh talk to her to understand the importance of being patince or giving in to little brother. But Aqil ni ada masa die tantrum if things doesnt goes his way. So paling2 I will lie down and pretending to sleep so eventually die akan nurse and it all settled if takde org layan die dh. Haha.

So how about you guys? Did you timeout as well or give in to their behavious when all the good cops gone?