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Tuesday, October 29, 2013

Random ramblings - Self reflection

It has been 4 great months since I became SAHM. Don't ask if this is permanent cause Im not too sure myself. What I really know that I feel great and infinite happiness with this blessed.

Benarlah kata orang, this is the best job ever, probably a dream to all working mothers out there. Though it sounds great but mind you, stay at home means more melayan-perangai-anak-yang-menguji-kesabaran.

Tipulah kalau tak rindu zaman bekerja. Perasaan mcm tu muncul bile anak buat perangai yang bikin keluar taring. Masa kerja adalah escape time dan masa utk rindu anak so that everyday ada perasaan happy utk looking forward to something that is soo dearest but that moment dissappear in instant bile anak cranky at time we are expecting die behave. Masa ni rse berslh sbb marah anak yg most probably nk attention tp kt duk pikir nak masak/buat other housechores.

Semua working mom ada perasaan yang sama. Bukan x sayang anak, tp sbb sayang lah tinggal-tinggalkan. A person could be a better mom when she is working.

I too myself have that kind of mind set tapi bila sendiri jadi SAHM rasa lain pulak. Kita sebenarnya boleh jadi better person at any condition that we had. It's a matter of choices whether nak choose to be one.

Working mom or SAHM sama je kalau kita sendiri asek nak menyinga dengan anak. Usah pikir pahala lagi banyak jadi housewife sbb itu semua kerja tuhan. Bukan manusia yg duk bagi markah pahala sape lagi banyak. Bantu suami ringankan beban pun pahala jugak kan.

Oleh itu, count your blessing people. Ingatlah masa2 rasa nak klua api kat hidung telinga tu, anak kita kecik lagi, dosa pon xde lg, apa manusia lah kita nak marah2 or tangan2 kan die yang xpaham pape tu. Lagi bagus kalau boleh remindkan diri 'Kalau anak dah takde baru tau'

Banyakkan baca article regarding being a good parents or at least ingat dalam otak 'anak, cermin kita'.

ps: Pelajaran dari alam sekeliling semasa bersosial dengan jiran tetangga. Semoga kita semua menjadi yang lebih baik!

1 comment :

Aan Andes said...

Yeah count your blessing. I was reminded so many times about it. I used to think working is escape time..tapi takde maknanya if we dont change for better. Masa kerja duk baca parenting and share kat fb and all, balik penat sikit je menyinga haha.

So gotta reflect myself and keep on reminding that they grow up so fast and will regret it kalau tak try our best.